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Should Stars Give Up Careers to Protect Children's Privacy?

Fri, 11/21/2008 - 7:00am by lilsugar
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Like their rich and famous parents, Tinseltown tots are often snapped and followed by the paps. Brad Pitt recently told Oprah about the effects the constant and crowding cameramen have on his kids. He said it particularly disturbs his 3-year-old daughter, Zahara. In the latest issue of Parade, Reese Witherspoon talked of her mama bear instincts kicking into high gear to guard her cubs Ava, 8, and Deacon, 4. To see what she said, read more.
She said:

“After my second baby, I was scared,” she recalls. “It’s hard to protect your babies from the press and all the people out there wanting a part of you. It made me hibernate a little bit more. I got very ‘Mama Bear’ and protective. You give birth, and worry and guilt come with it. It’s a natural part of being a parent. But for me, the most difficult part is seeing my children being followed and harassed. They’ve been treated terribly. They were shouted at in their Halloween costumes, photographers screaming, ‘You don’t look scared!’ We used to take our daughter to a wonderful school, and she was so harassed that we had to take her out. I hope not to live in this place forever."

While star spawn are born into celebrity, some parents decide to keep them in the limelight while pursuing high-profile careers. If you were one of Hollywood's notables, would you take it all in stride or would you leave the business for a more normal family life?

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  • Mykie7's picture
    Mykie7
    1

    It disgusts me that the paps harass kids like this. I don't LIKE it when they harass the stars, but at least with them they signed on for the publicity. For the most part they are prepared for it.

    The kids should be OFF LIMITS, I don't care HOW cute they are.

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Greggie's picture
    Greggie
    2

    Of course they shouldn't. Where would you draw the line? Should Obama give up his presidency to protect his children's privacy? It's silly to even think it's a question, in my opinion.

    And celebrities don't "decide to keep them in the limelight while pursuing high profile careers." They decide to keep their job after kids, just like a lot of regular folk.

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • krae85's picture
    krae85
    3

    good point, greggie. it's not the parents' fault, it's not like they're going out asking for their children to be harassed. but some stars don't seem to have this issue, I'm thinking Julia, why's it so much easier for her?

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Greggie's picture
    Greggie
    4

    She doesn't work much, for starters. She also lives in areas where it's more difficult to get pictures, which isn't as realistic for someone who works regularly.

    Choosing to work regularly does have the side effect of keeping children in the limelight, but it's not the same as choosing specifically to keep the children public.

    I also think that people like the Jolie-Pitts, no matter where they live or how much they work, they're going to be pursued for a good long time.

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Mykie7's picture
    Mykie7
    5

    Some parents do put their children in the limelight for publicity. I won't name them here, but with some of the celebrities it's obvious that's what they're doing.

    For those that aren't, LIKE Julia and Reese, there's no reason they shouldn't work, but the paparazzi need to use some common sense.

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Greggie's picture
    Greggie
    6

    Oh I agree some do, I just completely disagree with the story's claim that anyone pursuing a high-profile career is choosing to put their child in the limelight. And there are some that can go completely low-profile and have years before they're left alone. It's just not always a choice they can make.

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • sandykf's picture
    sandykf
    7

    Seriously, why are putting this on the stars? Why isn't the question, wow, why are the photographers being straight out jerks? Who raised to them think it was worth money to yell at children? Any amount of money? Why do we act like we have no control or censure over the photographers or the sites (like this one) who buy the pictures?

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • pinkprincess1101's picture
    pinkprincess1101
    8

    "Some parents do put their children in the limelight for publicity. I won't name them here, but with some of the celebrities it's obvious that's what they're doing.

    For those that aren't, LIKE Julia and Reese, there's no reason they shouldn't work, but the paparazzi need to use some common sense."

    I agree mykie

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • lilsugar's picture
    lilsugar
    9

    That sentence should have said "some" and I just clarified, but I posed the question because I think it's a very topical subject and wanted to hear our readers opinions.

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • macgirl's picture
    macgirl
    10

    I'm with Greggie, I don't think they should have to give up their careers.

    I do feel like I am part of the problem though. If I didn't read these sites and occasionally purchase the tabloid magazines then the pictures wouldn't be worth much. If they weren't worth anything then there would be no need for the competition and some of the low life tactics they use to "get the shot".

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Greggie's picture
    Greggie
    11

    I agree, macgirl. I do feel kind of silly complaining about paparazzi while on a gossip blog.

    6 weeks 4 days ago Report Comment
  • Frank y Ava's picture
    Frank y Ava
    12

    It may be hard, but if celebs don't want their family pursued they need to stop talking about their family and they need to stop telling cute little stories of what their kids do. I think Johnny Depp is a master of this because whenever he talks about the kiddies its very general and he never goes into detail or stays on the subject for a long time. But he also doesn't live in LA or started dating his wife a week or so after separating from his wife. It depends.

    And no I don't think celebs should give up their careers if they don't want to. I think you made a good point greggie, I heard someone say why would Barack run for Prez if he has 2 young kids and I gave the person the "that was a dumb thing to day" look. Same thing applies in this situation.

    6 weeks 3 days ago Report Comment
  • Joanna's picture
    Joanna
    13

    A lot of the stars manage to keep their children out of the
    press most of the time but there are those that use them
    for publicity. 90% of them only get photographed with them
    once in awhile. The others go out of their way to call attention
    to them, selling pictures, doing magazine spreads, and etc.
    If you call attention to them then what do you expect. I don't
    think they can expect anything else. Seeing the kids once in
    awhile is fine but putting them out there all the time is wrong.
    Most stars don't feel the need to make themselves look good by
    having children which really has nothing to do with being a star.
    Reese doesn't tell us all the private details of having kids,
    which is good. It shows respect for her children and she is
    right to protect them. Nicole, Hallie, Selma Hayak and dozens
    of others get their kids photographed once in awhile but they
    aren't making it a business.

    6 weeks 3 days ago Report Comment
  • ShePirate2008's picture
    ShePirate2008
    15

    in ways it is sad that the choices the parents make in Hollywood automatically effect the children! Though they are not always bad decisions it does.....and the kids get shaped by it or even judged early on. I dont think in certain situations that the parents need to give up their jobs...but either way the child will be stuck in the middle of it all no matter what...it seems for the most part a lot of celeb parent are trying to give their kids a normal life as possible and protecting them...its not always enouf though.....IDK

    5 weeks 6 days ago Report Comment

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